But she seemed happy just the way she was - she didn't care about the fact that she could never pass, she just wanted to have SRS to feel complete and content. Being a TS is something that you have to deal with all the time, and for the rest of your life, regardless of what you look like, or whether you pass or not. I am admittedly a perfectionist, and I have little patience with those who whine about their lives while doing little or nothing to change accepting myself as a transvestite is apparently a bad situation.
How I finally learned to be comfortable on my nonbinary, transgender journey
It can be more difficult, as you await being able to physically start to transition. Transitioning was the hardest thing I have ever done- the mental wear and tear is soul shattering. Wendy's thoughts Wendy is living stealth and plans to keep it that way.
It was all I knew. As long as our experience is open to the real world, self acceptance and passing are partly circular experiences. It was not just the testosterone; it was the first time I recognized my eyes. I knew already that other people treat me better when they mistake me for a cisgender man or a man of trans experience. Her post came in response to accepting myself as a transvestite discussion of "passing.